tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-773373869463725905.post5271408333006599919..comments2023-10-31T06:06:59.528-04:00Comments on How to Be the Best Nanny : Infant Potty TrainingBest Nanny Newsletterhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06103799261254020125noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-773373869463725905.post-14460366713011754942009-11-19T11:20:06.423-05:002009-11-19T11:20:06.423-05:00Dear Anonymous (whether you be one or two people),...Dear Anonymous (whether you be one or two people),<br /><br />The point is that people can practice infant potty training however they want. And I always use diapers or trainers. End of debate.<br /><br />I have read about elimination communication and going diaperless. If people want to do it that way, that is their choice. It does not mean everyone does it that way. <br /><br />Like I said, I always keep the kids in diapers or training pants except when they use the potty or toilet. That's how I choose to use infant potty training.<br /><br />You sound accusatory, but that is pointless.<br /><br />LizLiznoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-773373869463725905.post-3660732800062285852009-11-18T12:59:49.529-05:002009-11-18T12:59:49.529-05:00Comments yesterday about using diapers some of the...Comments yesterday about using diapers some of the time is wrong. Typically the goal is to partially or completely avoid the use of diapers. EC emphasizes communication between the caregiver and child, helping them both become more attuned to the child's innate rhythms and control of urination and defecation. The term "elimination communication" was inspired by traditional practices of diaper-less baby care in less industrialized countries and hunter-gatherer cultures.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-773373869463725905.post-2002809089056039152009-11-18T12:33:27.778-05:002009-11-18T12:33:27.778-05:00Liz and Lisa you should read todays post at http:/...Liz and Lisa you should read todays post at http://bestnannynewsletter.blogspot.com/2009/11/elimination-communication.html<br /><br />That is real elimination communication and they do preach diaper free. Your style is not truly elimination communication I do not think.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-773373869463725905.post-88266593864368879992009-11-17T17:01:31.142-05:002009-11-17T17:01:31.142-05:00If you want to see more about this go to you tube ...If you want to see more about this go to you tube and type in elimination communication.Lisa, DCnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-773373869463725905.post-89113397350409375662009-11-17T16:21:38.931-05:002009-11-17T16:21:38.931-05:00No this is not just for people who can't affor...No this is not just for people who can't afford diapers. <br /><br />My employers live in a very nice community. (When I mentioned to another nanny friend's employers where we lived, their immediate reaction was "oh their rich.") I make a great salary, plus benefits and perks that other nannies would envy if they knew the details of it all.<br /><br />I have heard time and time again from nannies who have charges with issues with potty training. Kids that are using Western approaches to it all. SO NO the way things are done in the good ole USA aren't always the best and only way.<br /><br />Disposable diapers haven't been around since the beginning of time. People were doing other things until a few decades ago. BUT disposable diapers can remain in landfills for a VERY LONG time.<br /><br />If I went into this job with the attitude of EEEwwww that's gross I would never work for these people because of this, I would have missed out on working for the best bosses I have ever had. My nanny friends who have met them love them too, and get why I am happy here.<br /><br />Dealing with cloth diapers has not been much more of an issue as dealing with the cloth ones. When my charge was real little and his diaper was dry on the changing table I got into the habit of making that ssssing sound, and then I would drape he diaper back down on him and within seconds he was peeing. It's like Pavlov's dog. And having an open mind about it all, has allowed me to learn even more about toilet training options with charges.Lisa, DCnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-773373869463725905.post-79908679653944252662009-11-17T15:56:59.577-05:002009-11-17T15:56:59.577-05:00Anonymous said "It is to teach kids to contro...Anonymous said "It is to teach kids to control their bladder and bowel. They do not learn that in this method. This is for parents who can't afford diapers"<br /><br />What method do you mean? With infant potty training, kids gradually learn bladder and bowel control. And as stated earlier, the babies I care for wear diapers except when using the potty. Later when they have better control, I put them in training pants.Liznoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-773373869463725905.post-43405629543134885512009-11-17T13:38:01.296-05:002009-11-17T13:38:01.296-05:00Potty training is to learn how to use the toilet. ...Potty training is to learn how to use the toilet. It is to teach kids to control their bladder and bowel. They do not learn that in this method. This is for parents who can't afford diapers and I won't be working for parents that can't afford diapers.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-773373869463725905.post-36020965089147433662009-11-17T13:31:40.190-05:002009-11-17T13:31:40.190-05:00Unless the child has a bad allergic reaction to di...Unless the child has a bad allergic reaction to disposable diapers I wouldn't bother. Unless there is a serious health issue for the infant using diapers makes sense. It might make the mom or caregiver feel better about themselves but I see know value to the infant. The infant won't be learning anything at all, they are too young to control bladders or understand what a toilet is.<br /><br />Marianne L. Richmond VirginiaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-773373869463725905.post-54018406046500097942009-11-17T12:43:00.695-05:002009-11-17T12:43:00.695-05:00I am the annoying nanny that keeps stressing that ...I am the annoying nanny that keeps stressing that we please teach your charges and have parents and nannies close toilet lids before flushing, and before leaving the bathroom! I just get so grossed out seeing toilet lids up!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-773373869463725905.post-51707342779528097082009-11-17T12:39:28.646-05:002009-11-17T12:39:28.646-05:00Oh, your explanations help Wendy and Liz thank you...Oh, your explanations help Wendy and Liz thank you. I'm glad caring intelligent nannies read these articles to help explain them how they use them in their daily jobs. I really don't want the parents to follow this route just seems harder. But I can certainly understand the concept and I do know we all watch for the signs of elimination already with babies.<br />I was shocked anyone would do it but your explanations help. Pleasantly surprised. Still hope my bosses don't ask me to do it though. Thanks again,<br />Nanny SallyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-773373869463725905.post-83920916098255883082009-11-17T11:49:50.716-05:002009-11-17T11:49:50.716-05:00In my position, the family also uses cloth diapers...In my position, the family also uses cloth diapers. With this there is a spayer attachment and a potty pail in the bathroom to hose off the soft bm ones, hard ones roll off right into the toilet.<br /><br />I am helping my bosses find back up care for when I have conflicts. The nanny I spoke to today was PLEASED to hear that my employers use cloth. Wait until I tell her about this.<br /><br />Thus when it comes time trying the elimination communication and rinsing out the potty chair, it's not a big deal.<br /><br />Yes, I only have one charge. <br /><br />But I can say when I was working with multiples, if I knew about some of the steps of EC like the sissing sound for example, I would have tried those with the others when we were toliet training.<br /><br />And any attentive nanny is going to be able to pick up on those cues that the children do provide.<br /><br />Many children adopted from places like Asia are being trained in this in orphanages at times too. And, some nannies do care for adopted kids.<br /><br />Okay, maybe this type of job isn't right for some nannies. But don't presume others of us have a lot of time on our hands to do this. We are just as busy too.<br /><br />It is more organic, and more families are going this route all the time.Lisa, DCnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-773373869463725905.post-11663569556570503872009-11-17T11:29:31.029-05:002009-11-17T11:29:31.029-05:00Hey Sally,
The babies wear diapers all the time e...Hey Sally,<br /><br />The babies wear diapers all the time except when I potty them. After naps and feedings, I remove the diaper and spend a few minutes offering the potty. If they do not have to go, the diaper goes back on.<br /><br />I'm certainly not saying all other nannies should do this. I was just responding to the question "Would you be willing to try infant potty training?" I wanted to let parents know that some nannies use it, so if it is important to a family they can look for a nanny who uses infant potty training.Liznoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-773373869463725905.post-28709653790451266712009-11-17T10:57:53.241-05:002009-11-17T10:57:53.241-05:00It is an interesting concept. We obviously know wh...It is an interesting concept. We obviously know when a baby is pushing lower digestion out as infants. But I do not think it makes sense for nannies and au pairs working in America. I think disposable diapers are a great thing. The most I might (might, might not) be willing to do is diapers in the laundry.lovebeinganannyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14065214480112809135noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-773373869463725905.post-30742399620401708642009-11-17T10:35:10.773-05:002009-11-17T10:35:10.773-05:00I feel like there must be something wrong with me ...I feel like there must be something wrong with me after reading Wendy and Liz's responses but this just sounds like a waste of time for busy nannies. Maybe if it is just you and the baby at home all day with absolutely nothing else to do or anyone else to care for it would be possible. Not in my life though.<br /><br />First of all it is cold in NJ most of the year. Bottomless babies do not make sense here.<br /><br />I would not work for a family that does this. I do not agree with this method since you will spend at least two years grabbing and cleaning out potties. <br /><br />Each and every other method suggested says kids do not potty train until 2 years so waste of time and effort in my mind.<br /><br />I am a caring and good nanny but this is of no interest to me.<br /><br />Nanny Sally<br />NorthWest NJAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-773373869463725905.post-82434779564707004582009-11-17T10:08:31.166-05:002009-11-17T10:08:31.166-05:00As a nanny, I haven't had trouble with it at a...As a nanny, I haven't had trouble with it at all. Parents have requested me to use infant potty training with their small children, and it has gone smoothly. As a courtesy, I jot down the times and potty events for them. <br /><br />They do not expect me to potty their babies every time. I do it after feedings, after naps and at "obvious" times (if the child is pushing and red in the face, for example). <br /><br />It's actually a lot of fun and quite rewarding to work with babies in this way. It doesn't take me any more time than changing diapers and cleaning baby bums, etc.Liznoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-773373869463725905.post-25873142554026561112009-11-17T08:03:31.264-05:002009-11-17T08:03:31.264-05:00I think this is nearly impossible in our western c...I think this is nearly impossible in our western culture. I think it is ok for a stay at home mom to try this. But as a nanny no way! I have other kids to care for, carpools, cleaning, cooking, so much to do. I do like the idea of watching and noticing when child is ready to go since you can change them, but this idea does not work for me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-773373869463725905.post-9206798740422079092009-11-17T07:34:03.698-05:002009-11-17T07:34:03.698-05:00In my current position the family would like to tr...In my current position the family would like to try it. They even asked about this in the interview with them.<br /><br />And, in a former position one of the parents was taught it. I having seen article on it start to appear more, as it is a way to go "green".Lisa, DCnoreply@blogger.com